I have two adult children. One has a Master's degree and the other is taking his business degree while holding down a part time job at a college consulting business start ups. I'm proud of those kids and they know it.
I was a mean, arrogant dad. Certainly, I helped them with their school work but I never helped them until they tried to help themselves first. When they asked me how to spell a word, I told them to look it up themselves. They hated that.
They both went to private schools. In grade eleven, my oldest started screwing around and skipping classes. I told him I wasn't go to pay for private school anymore unless he smartened up. To make a long story short, he ended up joining the army reserves and going to boot camp for the summer. It was the only way he could make enough money to finance his final year in private school. He didn't want to go back into the public system.
When an apprentice comes onto this site asking simple questions, I don't immediately barf out an answer. I didn't raise my own kids to be lazy thinkers and don't treat apprentices any differently. If that makes me the new bad guy around here, so be it.
If an apprentice comes here asking a simple question, I want to know why. If he isn't learning on the job, there may be deeper issues. Maybe he's in a bad work situation. If that's the case he may need career advice, not instructions on how to wire a three way switch. Our job is to help develop young tradesmen, not spoon feed them.
And here's some more advice for apprentices new to this site: If you're trying to get into the trade, please search the forums first. Most of your answers have already been posted. The same questions are asked so often that I hardly respond anymore.
I was a mean, arrogant dad. Certainly, I helped them with their school work but I never helped them until they tried to help themselves first. When they asked me how to spell a word, I told them to look it up themselves. They hated that.
They both went to private schools. In grade eleven, my oldest started screwing around and skipping classes. I told him I wasn't go to pay for private school anymore unless he smartened up. To make a long story short, he ended up joining the army reserves and going to boot camp for the summer. It was the only way he could make enough money to finance his final year in private school. He didn't want to go back into the public system.
When an apprentice comes onto this site asking simple questions, I don't immediately barf out an answer. I didn't raise my own kids to be lazy thinkers and don't treat apprentices any differently. If that makes me the new bad guy around here, so be it.
If an apprentice comes here asking a simple question, I want to know why. If he isn't learning on the job, there may be deeper issues. Maybe he's in a bad work situation. If that's the case he may need career advice, not instructions on how to wire a three way switch. Our job is to help develop young tradesmen, not spoon feed them.
And here's some more advice for apprentices new to this site: If you're trying to get into the trade, please search the forums first. Most of your answers have already been posted. The same questions are asked so often that I hardly respond anymore.